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Why Men Want Sex and Women Want Love
Copyright (C) 2007 Elena Solomon, author of
‘12 Simple Rules’ http://www.12simplerules.com
 Men
are frustrated with women because they never want sex.
Women are frustrated with men because they always want sex.
Women blame men they don’t know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but don’t want to make
it.
Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this article can change your
life - finally, you will be able to get rid of your frustrations about
the opposite gender.
The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is
predominantly male hormone. A normal male’s body produces 20 times
more of this hormone than a female’s.
In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a
female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days
feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of
the opposite gender. It’s NOT their fault: they are made this way!
It’s in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are
women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.
A man can father a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only
mother a child every two years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be
picky about who she allows to have sex with her.
For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong
choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring
and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with
good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived
disproportionally. Those children were carrying their picky mother’s
genes and this is why those female genes were passed to us.
On the other hand, men never had adverse consequences of making a wrong
choice. The more children they produced, the higher was their chance to
pass their genes to future generations, as some of them would certainly
survive. While men were determined to seek better genes too, they had to
grab all chances to procreate coming their way to ensure their genes
would be passed forward. The men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a
high quality woman) were losing genetically to the men that used all of
their opportunities and had many more children that survived. Those
children were carrying their father’s promiscuous genes, and this is
why those male genes were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can
spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so
they can make a better choice and get the best seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek quality.
This is why men seek sex and women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some assurance that the man
will stick around and help her with the upbringing of the offspring. For
a woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he
experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel
love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear
after they got what they wanted: it wasn’t love; it was the
testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their
passion.
This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women:
the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her.
He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is
through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex
must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When the sexual
tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and once is never
enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship – and
love.
Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.
All of this happens on the unconscious level - we do NOT realize
what’s going on.
But the reason why you are here today and alive is because each and
every of your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their instincts
and managed to attract at least one sexual partner and produce an
offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter about men wanting sex and women
wanting love. Those two are the necessary pieces of the puzzle called
Survival Of The Species.
And you’ll be better off understanding what the other gender is going
through and giving them exactly what they want: a mind-blowing sex or
exhilarating love.
Go get ‘em! :-)
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Elena Solomon is a life coach, Master of NLP and a ‘Best of The Best’ Expert of AllExperts.com. Her passion is helping
single people to find love. Her latest ebook ‘12 Simple Rules For Success in Love, Life and Online Dating’
(http://www.12SimpleRules.com) became #1 Love and Romance Bestseller in the leading ebooks distribution service
ClickBank in just one week after the release.
If you are single, and you want to find someone to love,
and you want to find someone SOON, check this book:
http://www.12SimpleRules.com/
Copyright (C) 2007 Elena Solomon. All rights reserved.
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